If her husband forbids her when he hears about it, he nullifies the vow that obligates her. (Numbers 30:8)This passage speaks to the seriousness of keeping one's promises, and how important it is to keep from making vows rashly.
At first glance, it might seem this passage is demeaning to women, who can have their vows overridden by their fathers or husbands; however, that's not the point. The purpose of this regulation is not to be condescending to women, but to protect them. On the other hand, it also protects husbands and families from being burdened with debts racked up by non-worldly wise wives and daughters. These are not the arbitrary restrictions of a woman-hating God, but the sheltering embrace of a benevolent parent.
As an example of another biblical writer's honor and respect for successful businesswomen, see Proverbs 31:10-31.
Have you ever made a promise and later wished someone could get you out of it?
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