I can slap a label on people within minutes of meeting them.
You know; the whole first impressions thing. And once I label them, there ends
the discussion. There is no question as to their intentions or character.
Everything I need to know can be answered by looking at that label – the label
I put there.
Sometimes the problem is our lenses. We talk about looking
at the world through rose-colored glasses – seeing things better than they
really are. My eyes don’t focus the way they used to, so I wear corrective
lenses… reading glasses. They help correct the distorted image my aging eyes
see so I can read the words on the page.
Not all lenses are corrective; not all lenses are
rose-colored. Sometimes our lenses confirm our prejudices. If we see people as
out to get us, everything they do will seem suspect. If we see someone as a
bigot, everything he says will seem prejudiced. See someone else as dishonest
and everything she says will be filtered for possible deceit. Those are heavy
loads to impose on people, no matter who they are.
We put people in boxes that too often determine their shape.
That’s not fair. It’s not right to subject individuals to our preconceived
ideas about them. They start out with a negative balance and find it difficult
if not impossible to ever break even.
TODAY’S MEDITATION
Whom do you need to let out
of a box? Ask your Father to help you view others with mercy and grace rather
than judgment.
Tim, this fits so well with what I just shared on Facebook yesterday. If you get a chance, check out the little video. It speaks of this very subject.
ReplyDeleteYou're right, Merry. That is a great video. Everyone we meet is fighting a battle. If we remembered that, maybe we'd be a little nicer.
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